diff --git a/Cargo.lock b/Cargo.lock
index 7bb67a67..f1fd1ecb 100644
--- a/Cargo.lock
+++ b/Cargo.lock
@@ -3572,6 +3572,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "revolt-database",
  "revolt-models",
  "revolt-permissions",
+ "revolt-presence",
  "revolt-result",
  "revolt_rocket_okapi",
  "rocket",
diff --git a/crates/bonfire/src/events/impl.rs b/crates/bonfire/src/events/impl.rs
index 46c854b8..325267f4 100644
--- a/crates/bonfire/src/events/impl.rs
+++ b/crates/bonfire/src/events/impl.rs
@@ -180,7 +180,7 @@ impl State {
             .collect();
 
         // Make sure we see our own user correctly.
-        users.push(user.into_self().await);
+        users.push(user.into_self(true).await);
 
         // Set subscription state internally.
         self.reset_state().await;
@@ -540,6 +540,20 @@ impl State {
                 }
             }
 
+            EventV1::Message(message) => {
+                // Since Message events are fanned out to many clients,
+                // we must reconstruct the relationship value at this end.
+                if let Some(user) = &mut message.user {
+                    user.relationship = self
+                        .cache
+                        .users
+                        .get(&self.cache.user_id)
+                        .expect("missing self?")
+                        .relationship_with(&message.author)
+                        .into();
+                }
+            }
+
             _ => {}
         }
 
diff --git a/crates/delta/Cargo.toml b/crates/delta/Cargo.toml
index 6450d16a..3d15fc2c 100644
--- a/crates/delta/Cargo.toml
+++ b/crates/delta/Cargo.toml
@@ -77,6 +77,7 @@ revolt-models = { path = "../core/models", features = [
     "validator",
     "rocket",
 ] }
+revolt-presence = { path = "../core/presence" }
 revolt-result = { path = "../core/result", features = ["rocket", "okapi"] }
 revolt-permissions = { path = "../core/permissions", features = ["schemas"] }
 
diff --git a/crates/delta/src/routes/bots/fetch_owned.rs b/crates/delta/src/routes/bots/fetch_owned.rs
index 8a40b228..db4017ce 100644
--- a/crates/delta/src/routes/bots/fetch_owned.rs
+++ b/crates/delta/src/routes/bots/fetch_owned.rs
@@ -24,7 +24,7 @@ pub async fn fetch_owned_bots(db: &State<Database>, user: User) -> Result<Json<O
     users.sort_by(|a, b| a.id.cmp(&b.id));
 
     Ok(Json(OwnedBotsResponse {
-        users: join_all(users.into_iter().map(|user| user.into_self())).await,
+        users: join_all(users.into_iter().map(|user| user.into_self(false))).await,
         bots: bots.into_iter().map(|bot| bot.into()).collect(),
     }))
 }
diff --git a/crates/delta/src/routes/onboard/complete.rs b/crates/delta/src/routes/onboard/complete.rs
index 93846013..e3621a19 100644
--- a/crates/delta/src/routes/onboard/complete.rs
+++ b/crates/delta/src/routes/onboard/complete.rs
@@ -48,7 +48,7 @@ pub async fn complete(
     Ok(Json(
         User::create(db, data.username, session.user_id, None)
             .await?
-            .into_self()
+            .into_self(false)
             .await,
     ))
 }
diff --git a/crates/delta/src/routes/servers/ban_list.rs b/crates/delta/src/routes/servers/ban_list.rs
index 5ab63fb0..457fd98e 100644
--- a/crates/delta/src/routes/servers/ban_list.rs
+++ b/crates/delta/src/routes/servers/ban_list.rs
@@ -36,7 +36,7 @@ pub async fn list(
         )
         .await?
         .into_iter()
-        .map(|u| u.into_self()),
+        .map(|u| u.into_self(false)),
     )
     .await;
 
diff --git a/crates/delta/src/routes/users/edit_user.rs b/crates/delta/src/routes/users/edit_user.rs
index 9815bbfb..b6aab49e 100644
--- a/crates/delta/src/routes/users/edit_user.rs
+++ b/crates/delta/src/routes/users/edit_user.rs
@@ -52,7 +52,7 @@ pub async fn edit(
         && data.flags.is_none()
         && data.remove.is_none()
     {
-        return Ok(Json(user.into_self().await));
+        return Ok(Json(user.into_self(false).await));
     }
 
     // 1. Remove fields from object
@@ -126,5 +126,5 @@ pub async fn edit(
     )
     .await?;
 
-    Ok(Json(user.into_self().await))
+    Ok(Json(user.into_self(false).await))
 }
diff --git a/crates/delta/src/routes/users/fetch_self.rs b/crates/delta/src/routes/users/fetch_self.rs
index 11eb497b..02257be9 100755
--- a/crates/delta/src/routes/users/fetch_self.rs
+++ b/crates/delta/src/routes/users/fetch_self.rs
@@ -9,5 +9,5 @@ use rocket::serde::json::Json;
 #[openapi(tag = "User Information")]
 #[get("/@me")]
 pub async fn fetch(user: User) -> Result<Json<v0::User>> {
-    Ok(Json(user.into_self().await))
+    Ok(Json(user.into_self(false).await))
 }
diff --git a/crates/delta/src/routes/users/fetch_user.rs b/crates/delta/src/routes/users/fetch_user.rs
index e8886ca9..68be67b9 100644
--- a/crates/delta/src/routes/users/fetch_user.rs
+++ b/crates/delta/src/routes/users/fetch_user.rs
@@ -15,7 +15,7 @@ use rocket::{serde::json::Json, State};
 #[get("/<target>")]
 pub async fn fetch(db: &State<Database>, user: User, target: Reference) -> Result<Json<v0::User>> {
     if user.id == target.id {
-        return Ok(Json(user.into_self().await));
+        return Ok(Json(user.into_self(false).await));
     }
 
     let target = target.as_user(db).await?;